The Ladies Junction (English)

The title of this blog might seem a bit strange. You must be thinking, "What kind of struggles does a person have to face after becoming successful?"  It is a common misconception people have in their minds about successful people. They think that after the achievement of success, one lives in total happiness and joy.  Well, for the most part, this is not true. Especially not for those who want to stay successful.  We all know that fame and fortune don't stay linear. Every person faces lows and highs in his lifetime.  Still, people who want their glory to stay stable are always doing some struggle.  This is because they not only create a specific image in the minds of people close to them but also in people with whom they have not acquainted themselves.  Among these well-wishers, some envious people also exist, hiding behind the mask of a friend, acquaintance, or relative.  They are those who keep waiting for successful people to make a wrong move in t...

On her first day at her in-law's place, Shobha sees her mother-in-law's unexpected appearance, which is unforgettable to her. On the day of Shobha's arrival at her in-laws, Shobha's mother-in-law got furious over something at her Devrani. The matter seemed very small to Shobha but not to her mother-in-law. Due to this, Shobha started keeping ill feelings toward her mother-in-law and became afraid of her. But, Shobha never faces her mother-in-law's anger. She was usually very nice to Shobha. Still, seeing her mother-in-law in that state of rage on her first day at her Sasural has put a deep impression on Shobha. This impression of her mother-in-law has made Shobha a person who keeps his feelings to himself. Similarly, a woman named Kalpana has got appointed as a teacher in a school. When she went to her class on her first day, she made kids terrified of her by yelling and scolding them throughout their study period. Now, even when children have doubts in class, they ...

Do you tend to delay everything to the next day? Don’t worry. It is not only you; procrastination is almost everyone’s problem. The habit of procrastination can be due to several reasons: lack of concentration, bad time management, lack of interest, fear of failure.  It can also be due to obsession with perfectionism.  In this article, you will find some tips that will help you stop procrastination and get on the task you want to do.  STEP 1: Identify the task you generally postpone First, try to focus on all the tasks you have at a time; make a list.  After that, look at the tasks you tend to find uninspiring and cumbersome. Then, identify if the task you try to but cannot get done is some office work, household chores, or a conversation with a specific person.                                                           ...

Leadership means leading people. It is one of the most necessary skills to have in life. Leadership has led to the progress of human civilization. It is one of the most crucial things to have for running such a big world.  However, not everyone has this quality.  To develop the qualities of a good leader, let us look at their most cherished characteristics - Self-confidence– It is one of the essential qualities of a leader. You can’t be a good leader if you lack self-confidence. You must have confidence in your decisions. If you show this, then only others will follow you.  Good Communication- It is a must skill for a good leader. Poor communication leads to disconnection. People might take things you said in the wrong way. Good communication will clear misunderstandings, convey the right message, and also help in making good relations. Honesty- It is another chief quality of a leader. Honesty and integrity are crucial to win the love and trust of followers. If you are im...

We speak and listen to many words daily. However insignificant they may appear, they are actually very important and therefore we should speak carefully. Words like ‘yes’ or ‘no’ seem very small but carry much significance. It has the power to hurt or mend hearts. Many times people say yes to others without thinking much, and if they fail to do what they said then they face criticism. It is good to help others but it doesn’t mean that we say yes to their inappropriate things and leave our work and help them.  If you are not comfortable saying ‘yes’ then you need to learn to say ‘no’ sometimes, it doesn’t matter if the person is close to us. Because if you keep saying ‘yes’ despite being uncomfortable it will cause stress to you and affect your mental health. You have the right to say ‘no’ and also don’t always need to make excuses for your ‘no’. You should always set your boundaries. First, evaluate yourself whether you can do that work or not and if you can’t then there isn’t any ...

Mrs. Mehra has a very kind and caring heart. She is a social worker and even takes care of the servants at her house. If anyone in the neighborhood gets sick, she is always ready to help. If someone has to go out and can't take their children along with them, Mrs. Mehra is always there to take care of their children. Everyone likes Mrs. Mehra for her helping nature.  However, there's one thing about her that people don't seem to like. That thing is her nature of speaking rough when angry. She even gets abusive when in a bad mood. Now, let me tell you about an officer. People call him Mr. Verma. He works in a big firm. Until he gives his introduction and tells about his profession, people think he works on a small post in a small company.  Why so? It is because of his shabby appearance. Mr. Jain is a doctor who got his degree from a prestigious university in England. He does his job well but, people don't trust him.  What's the reason? He smokes cigarettes a lot. His...

  Yesterday Mrs Sharma bought a five meter cloth from shop. When she returned home and checked the cloth,it was not five meters but four meter and seventy centimeter. She was angry and thought of confronting the shopkeeper. But later she decided to not do so as she thought that the shopkeeper would not behave nice and in return would say something. Due to her hesitating nature Mrs. Sharma did not confront the shopkeeper on the cheating. Like Mrs. Sharma a lot of people due to their hesitating nature makes loses. Some people are so hesitating that they do not even open up to doctor about their problems and some want to start business but does not do it out of various hesitations like whether or not the idea is good or what will people say. The nature of hesitation can lead to laid backs in life. Reema sings well but due to hesitation would never take part in her college fests. It's often seen that confident people know how to manage a situation and they don't shy away from makin...

WRITING: It is one of our most powerful method of communication and it is valuable both in life and in business. Like any other skill this one too requires you to practise a lot. The best way of learning it is to write every day. To do so you can maintain a daily dairy or create a blog. On your blog try publishing every day, even when you are not satisfied with your result. After a period of consistent practise you will definitely find a huge improvement. PUBLIC SPEAKING: Public speaking or learning to speak with ease in front of a crowd is a life skill that would not only enhance your speaking capabilities but also will help you to boost your confidence and deal with fear of failure or crowds. PROGRAMMING: It is one of the most inevitable skill of today’s technological era. Some of the sub skills you learn in it are web development, backend development, game development, app development, robotics, A.I, data mining, languages, and many more. PHOTOGRAPHY: To learn to use camera to take ...

Seema recently got a job in a big company. Though she is well qualified but still notices her seniors' working methods and strategies. She often takes advice from her seniors when she faces trouble in her work. The way Seema respects her seniors and uses their knowledge, everyone too should treat their seniors as mentors and use their foresight, knowledge, and advice. Seniors have full knowledge of the company. They are well acquainted with many people in the office and also well informed about various departments. Seniors are confident and bold while speaking to other officers. You can learn communication skills from them. Before making any senior your mentor makes sure the senior is a good person and also whether she cooperates or not. Only after analyzing all her good and bad traits consider her as your mentor, and beware of the bad seniors.