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First impression is the last impression

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On her first day at her in-law's place, Shobha sees her mother-in-law's unexpected appearance, which is unforgettable to her. On the day of Shobha's arrival at her in-laws, Shobha's mother-in-law got furious over something at her Devrani. The matter seemed very small to Shobha but not to her mother-in-law. Due to this, Shobha started keeping ill feelings toward her mother-in-law and became afraid of her. But, Shobha never faces her mother-in-law's anger. She was usually very nice to Shobha. Still, seeing her mother-in-law in that state of rage on her first day at her Sasural has put a deep impression on Shobha. This impression of her mother-in-law has made Shobha a person who keeps his feelings to himself. Similarly, a woman named Kalpana has got appointed as a teacher in a school. When she went to her class on her first day, she made kids terrified of her by yelling and scolding them throughout their study period. Now, even when children have doubts in class, they ...

Characteristics of a Good Leader

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Leadership means leading people. It is one of the most necessary skills to have in life. Leadership has led to the progress of human civilization. It is one of the most crucial things to have for running such a big world.  However, not everyone has this quality.  To develop the qualities of a good leader, let us look at their most cherished characteristics - Self-confidence– It is one of the essential qualities of a leader. You can’t be a good leader if you lack self-confidence. You must have confidence in your decisions. If you show this, then only others will follow you.  Good Communication- It is a must skill for a good leader. Poor communication leads to disconnection. People might take things you said in the wrong way. Good communication will clear misunderstandings, convey the right message, and also help in making good relations. Honesty- It is another chief quality of a leader. Honesty and integrity are crucial to win the love and trust of followers. If you are im...

Think Before Saying Yes

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We speak and listen to many words daily. However insignificant they may appear, they are actually very important and therefore we should speak carefully. Words like ‘yes’ or ‘no’ seem very small but carry much significance. It has the power to hurt or mend hearts. Many times people say yes to others without thinking much, and if they fail to do what they said then they face criticism. It is good to help others but it doesn’t mean that we say yes to their inappropriate things and leave our work and help them.  If you are not comfortable saying ‘yes’ then you need to learn to say ‘no’ sometimes, it doesn’t matter if the person is close to us. Because if you keep saying ‘yes’ despite being uncomfortable it will cause stress to you and affect your mental health. You have the right to say ‘no’ and also don’t always need to make excuses for your ‘no’. You should always set your boundaries. First, evaluate yourself whether you can do that work or not and if you can’t then there isn’t any ...

Reasons for Decline in your Popularity

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Teenage is the age of mistakes. But that does not mean that you should not strive to correct them. You unknowingly start repeating these mistakes over and over and make them a habit. After some time, you find yourself wondering why people do not seem to like you anymore.  Well, this article is here for your help. These are the few reasons why you are facing a decline in your popularity - Talking about yourself a lot in a conversation. Speaking loudly. Staring at strangers. Eating with an open mouth. Untidy eating habits. Picking your nose often. Laughing loudly. Sipping tea or coffee loudly. Not thanking when someone helps you. Littering around. Not returning things you have borrowed. Touching objects at someone else’s house. Bragging about your richness. Listening to someone with an open mouth and wide eyes. Fighting with friends’ parents due to a fight with friends. Giving more attention to wealthy friends. Using English words and sentences on purpose while talking with someone w...

Your Evident Personality is your identity for your Audience

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Mrs. Mehra has a very kind and caring heart. She is a social worker and even takes care of the servants at her house. If anyone in the neighborhood gets sick, she is always ready to help. If someone has to go out and can't take their children along with them, Mrs. Mehra is always there to take care of their children. Everyone likes Mrs. Mehra for her helping nature.  However, there's one thing about her that people don't seem to like. That thing is her nature of speaking rough when angry. She even gets abusive when in a bad mood. Now, let me tell you about an officer. People call him Mr. Verma. He works in a big firm. Until he gives his introduction and tells about his profession, people think he works on a small post in a small company.  Why so? It is because of his shabby appearance. Mr. Jain is a doctor who got his degree from a prestigious university in England. He does his job well but, people don't trust him.  What's the reason? He smokes cigarettes a lot. His...

Why do you lose popularity in Adolescence

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The adolescent class is the effigy of mistakes, but this does not mean that people from this class should not correct their mistakes. Sometimes inadvertently and sometimes carelessly, teenagers make their mistakes a part of their nature. Later, they wonder why their popularity is decreasing day by day. Here are some reasons why your popularity may be decreasing day by day: You may have the habit of talking about yourself a lot during a conversation. Sitting at a neighbour when other guests are already in their house. Talking loudly. Staring at a stranger. Chewing with your mouth open. Using all the fingers of your hand to feed yourself. Repeatedly putting a finger in the nose. Even when one does not ask for any advice, you go on plastering your advice on them. Laugh out loud at small things. Drink tea or coffee with a slurping sound. Not understanding the need for saying 'thank you' when someone does a favor. Throwing garbage and spitting anywhere, etc. Not returning borrowed t...

Step out of hesitation and make the move

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  Yesterday Mrs Sharma bought a five meter cloth from shop. When she returned home and checked the cloth,it was not five meters but four meter and seventy centimeter. She was angry and thought of confronting the shopkeeper. But later she decided to not do so as she thought that the shopkeeper would not behave nice and in return would say something. Due to her hesitating nature Mrs. Sharma did not confront the shopkeeper on the cheating. Like Mrs. Sharma a lot of people due to their hesitating nature makes loses. Some people are so hesitating that they do not even open up to doctor about their problems and some want to start business but does not do it out of various hesitations like whether or not the idea is good or what will people say. The nature of hesitation can lead to laid backs in life. Reema sings well but due to hesitation would never take part in her college fests. It's often seen that confident people know how to manage a situation and they don't shy away from makin...

How participating in competitions boosts your confidence

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Manish studies in 11th standard. He is very good at studies. Along with studies he also participates in all sorts of competitions in school, radio, TV, as well as newspapers and magazines. He participates in essay competitions, debates drawing competitions, etc. sometimes he wins first prize, sometimes third prize; but he never loses his courage. Manish has a friend named Rajat. He doesn’t take interest in competitions and also mocks others who participates in all these. Suraj of 12th standard thinks there’s no point in participating in lucky draws. Sameer thinks that the competition prize money is too, that’s why there’s no point of participating in such competitions as his pocket money is more than it. Richa of 11th standard participates in all kinds of competitions in newspapers and magazines but hesitates to participate in competitions held by her school. Children should participate in all kinds of competitions. Children who start participating since young age do not fear competiti...