Your Evident Personality is your identity for your Audience

Mrs. Mehra has a very kind and caring heart. She is a social worker and even takes care of the servants at her house. If anyone in the neighborhood gets sick, she is always ready to help. If someone has to go out and can't take their children along with them, Mrs. Mehra is always there to take care of their children. Everyone likes Mrs. Mehra for her helping nature. 

However, there's one thing about her that people don't seem to like. That thing is her nature of speaking rough when angry. She even gets abusive when in a bad mood.

Now, let me tell you about an officer. People call him Mr. Verma. He works in a big firm. Until he gives his introduction and tells about his profession, people think he works on a small post in a small company. 

Why so? It is because of his shabby appearance.

Mr. Jain is a doctor who got his degree from a prestigious university in England. He does his job well but, people don't trust him. 

What's the reason? He smokes cigarettes a lot. His patients often call him, ''chain smoker doctor.''

There's always a cigarette in his hand, which he smokes in front of his patients.

Mrs. Sudha has done M.A and Ph.D. She is a lecturer of Economics in a college. However, she has a bad habit of showing off.

She never misses a chance to show off her sarees, bags, perfume, etc. Due to this, people make fun of her.

Now, by using the examples of Mrs. Mehra, Mr. Verma, Mr. Jain, and Mrs. Sudha, what I want to say is that your profession or degree does not play the role of representing your personality. 

Your personality gets defined by your nature and the way you live your life. People notice this before knowing about the degrees you hold and your profession. 

If you are soft-spoken and your way of living is good, people will automatically think that you belong to a good family and are in a good profession.

If you are a doctor and you smoke a lot, then your patients will not trust you with their treatment. They will think that being a doctor, if you are careless with your health, how can you treat them well?

In the same way, it doesn't matter if you are an M.A or Ph.D., if you speak roughly or have a habit of showing off, then people won't like you. 

Like Mr. Verma, if you'll carry a shabby look, people will term you as a careless person and will make fun of you.

If your evident personality is not good, then no matter what degree you hold and the profession you are in, people will not like you. 

So be conscious of your personality. You must be good with words and carry a good way of living. In this way, you will be liked and respected in society.

Written by Pranjal Sinha